Sir Hopewell has responded to a video of a woman who was filmed by her husband. In the message he had this to say:
There is a video I watched in a WhatsApp group, and oh dear me, I regret having watched it.
I want to appeal to men, don’t simp by recording your woman because she cheated.
Why behave like a journalist asking questions about the number of times, when, and how?
I mean, what kind of fool does that?
A real man will let the woman go, not resort to threatening to kill her and all that nonsense!
If she cheated, it means she didn’t value the relationship you have with her.
Stop interrogating cheaters as if you are a journalist trying to get a scoop.
Doing so is nothing short of toxic and it shows a serious sign of weakness as a man.
It is not only disrespectful but also humiliating and degrading to yourself.
Real strength lies in walking away from a situation or relationship that no longer serves you.
Threatening violence or acting like a crazed detective only makes you look weak, insecure, and frankly, pathetic.
After watching the video I realised why the woman cheated, she had no respect for the simp and frankly speaking being a simp is extremely unattractive to women.
I also want to say to all men, be there for your children especially girls, this behaviours we are seeing are a direct result of missing fathers who are not there ti give their kids self confidence.
Cheating can be a trait of seeking validation, absent fathers are creating tomorrow’s headaches!
Isu vana naChihera don’t simp, if my woman ever cheated, I will simply show her the door.
Be a real man, don’t be a victim of foolish tactics like what this man showed us.
I mean, what kind of man asks a woman how many times she had intimacy with her lover? Wozodi kana waudzwa?